From the Rape Capital of the World: Stories of Survival


Violence against women takes different forms: physical, sexual, emotional and economic. These forms of violence are consistent and distress women’s life. Yearly, millions of women and little girls worldwide suffer domestic violence, rape, female genital mutilation, killing, trafficking, sexual violence in conflict zones, and abuse.

Women and little girls who are subjected to violence suffer a severe range of health and psychological problems which diminish their civic engagement in their communities. These different types of violence against women harm families; generations and nations, in additions strengthen other forms of violence to occur in the society.

The Democratic Republic of the Congo, in particular the east of the country, has a long history of rape and violence, it was named the “Rape Capital of the World”. Although sexual violence has always occurred in the country, but the region has faced increased rates of sexual violence at the time of the armed conflicts.

This report has lifted the lid on the sexual exploitation of little girls aged between 6 months to 12 years old, along with government failures to deal with the issue.

The Club des défenseurs des droits de la fille/HPT visited the victims on the 17th of this month in Kavumu, SOUTH KIVU, DR CONGO; the families of the victims shared with us their harrowing feelings.
The daily stories of Kavumu, group of men come every night, break into the houses kidnap and rape little girls. Then in the morning they bring them back to their beds or leave them at the door house. If the girls are lucky enough to survive, they are taken to the Kavumu health center. We have covered 42 severe rape cases of young girls and one of them did not survive, sometimes the little girls get pregnant. Several survivors received the first care in local clinics then were sent to Panzi hospital, the victims are aged between 6 months to 12 years. Relatives of the victims cannot sleep because of the criminals, as they don’t know when they are back again. The poor construction of the homes in this neighborhood, -that are often built of mud- due to lack of financials resources of the families; makes it an easy target for the criminals to break in and rape the little girls.


A mother testified that neither she nor her husband had heard when their daughter (Elysée) was abducted at their side. The following morning, while bathing her daughter, she realized that she was raped and then took her to the hospital.

Elysée is a 3 year old from Bushumba who was raped at the age of 2 years, she said she saw a civilian and a soldier “I thought it was our landlord”, they injected a syringe in her body and then rapped her. She only felt the pain when her mother took her to the hospital.


Bénite, 12 years old, was raped at the age of 9 years. She loves her grandmother and lived with her for a while, one night her life changed completely, when she heard someone broke into the house, he prevented her from screaming. He was a man whom she knows very well, he took her by force to his place and raped her and then brought her back in the morning to her grandmother’s house. Her mother realized that something happened to her daughter as she was crying for no reason, then she took her to the hospital when she found out who rapped her little daughter, she prosecuted the rapist, who unfortunately was released the same day because of his financial power. Whenever Bénite sees this man, she starts crying, stop eating, and then remain silent, she told her mother she wants to leave Kavumu.

In the Democratic Republic of Congo, four women are raped every five minutes. Impunity sways within the country, and despite that government’s acknowledges that its own security forces constitute one of the main groups of criminals, effective restructurings to the security sector have not been endorsed. The country faces a mass of human rights violations which remain dangerous for women and little girls, whom are subjected to all kind of violence every day.

Nowhere is more dangerous for women than the Democratic Republic of the Congo, where women and girls suffer excessively from high rates of violence and extreme poverty during times of conflict since 1996. Even though peace has been established in most regions of the country, but the eastern provinces, still suffer from gender-based violence.

The use of rape and sexual assault to terrify -women and little girls, their families, and their communities- continues until actions are taken to save their innocent lives.
Special thanks go to:

  • To the parents of the victims for their cooperation with us, and for sharing their stories with us.
  • To the Kavumu hospital nursing center for the care provided to the victims
  • To the “Club des défenseurs des droits de la fille”, for their support in the fight against sexual violence and for their continuous promotion for women’s rights.

This report was written in collaboration with Jocelyne SACERDOCE and “Club des Défenseurs des Droits de la Fille/ HPT”

The Forgotten Frontline: Women at War Zone: Nigeria’s case


Soon after taking control of some Nigerian towns, Boko Haram would assemble the population and declare new rules with restrictions and limits to follow, particularly on women. Suffering, rape, forced marriage continuous stories of women tortured by this terrorist group.


The 276 schoolgirls kidnapped from Chibok captured widespread global attention with the #BringBackOurGirls campaign. Though the missing school girls tell just a small part of the women and young girls torture by Boko Haram.

Following the shocking event of the missing girls, Amnesty International has elevated concerns on the countless number of cases when Nigerian security forces are not doing enough to defend civilians from human rights misuses and abuses committed by Boko Haram.

Girls and women abducted by the Nigerian extremist group Boko Haram were forced to unwanted marriage and obligatory labor, rape, torture, psychological abuse and pressured religious conversion.

According to Amnesty International report, more than 2000 women and girls have been abducted and seized and held in militant camps of Boko Haram since 2014, some of them have been targeted because they are Christians and others because they didn’t follow the extremists religious rules, these women were victims of sexual slavery and were trained to kill.

Human Rights Watch collected testimony of the women who escaped Boko Haram’s camps, whom told about the extreme violence terror happening there. Many of the victims expressed that they were subjected to physical and psychological abuse; forced labor; forced participation in military actions, enforced marriage to the abductors; and sexual abuse and rape.

Most of abductions cases by Boko Haram were against Christian women and girls, and many of them have been threatened with death if they refused to convert to Islam.

More than 300 Nigerian women rescued by the Nigerian soldiers from Sambisa forest, where they were forced to witness the public execution of their husbands before whipping into the forest, where they were fed with dry ground corn once a day.

They were also raped, forced into unlawful marriages and stoned to death, some of them were killed unintentionally by the military during the rescue operations, and the soldiers did not recognize that those women were not the enemies but the victims.

Boko Haram forced its laws with harsh punishments on those not following the rules; women who failed to attend daily prayers were punished by public flogging.

The situation over Nigeria calls on the Nigerian government to adopt stronger strategies and measures to protect women and girls, provide help for the victims. The government must provide security forces to prevent abductions and respond more quickly when they happened. The Nigerian authorities have to investigate and prosecute those who commit these inhuman crimes, they need to protect schools and the right to education, and ensure access to medical and mental health services for victims of the abductions.


The Forgotten Frontline: Women at War Zone: Syria’s case


The civil war has destroyed Syria and dominated the news; there is a noteworthy aspect of the conflict that endures to go mostly unreported: the dilemma of women and girls who take the flak of the war.

They are bearing the greatest burden, yet their voices and stories are often left unheard.

Syria is undergoing the biggest humanitarian crisis in the world of today. Since the beginning of the Syrian crisis in March 2011, the human rights activists and organizations claimed that the situation has persistently worsened. The Independent International Commission of Inquiry on Syria and the UN Human Rights Council have been reverberating the warnings of the grave violations committed by Syrian government and other parties of the conflict.

Violent and aggressive fighting have increased between Bashar al-Assad’s followers and armed rebellious groups; in July 2012, the fighting was qualified as internal armed conflict caused humanitarian damages on civilian citizens; including random arrests and detention, extra-judicial executions, rape, different forms of sexual violence, kidnapping, enforced disappearances and torture by Syrian authorities and pro-governmental militias called “shabbihas”.

As of June 2015, more than half of all Syrians have been enforced to leave their homes; 7.6 million people were exiled within Syria and 3.9 million people displaced as refugees in neighboring countries: Lebanon, Jordan and Turkey, according to UN refugee agency.

Women and girls are among the most vulnerable, about half million Syrian women, those in refugees and those who still in Syria, are sexually injured, pregnant and need maternal care services.

Countless UN bodies and representatives, international and national NGOs and journalists, have documented the crimes attacks and the sexual violence cases committed during the Syrian crisis. Still, it remains tremendously difficult to measure the extent of crimes of sexual violence and to draw conclusions on patterns; however, there have been several reports of crimes of sexual violence committed by anti-government armed groups. The Special Representative of the Secretary-General on Sexual Violence in Conflict, Zainab Hawa Bangura, stated that “Civilians already caught in a vicious cycle of violence are also the target of sexual violence by all parties to the conflict”.

Most accusations of rape and the other forms of sexual violence reported were said to have been executed by government forces and shabbiha during house searches, at checkpoints and in imprisonment.

In some cases, women were assaulted and beaten in public in front of family members.

We caught up with Karam Yahya “Syrian Refugee in Germany and human right activist” who told us :“Women suffer differently according to the region they live in, suffering in Damascus is not the same in north of Syria, every region is controlled by regime and group, which makes women subjective to different suffering experiences”. He added: “There is a social disorder in all these regions, women struggle to feed their families as their husbands go to fight, and outside Syria the suffering is even enormous, the case of Zaatari Camp in Jordan where I worked, there is violence, discrimination, and the cultural conservative traditions enforce women to stay home”


Thousands of Syrian women are objects of sexual violence, but their conservative cultural and religious environments, especially in rural and southern areas of Syria, prohibit women and girls from talking freely about their suffering from sexual violence and other forms of violence.

This is the reason that makes it very difficult to find rape cases because of the dominant culture and the refusal to talk publicly about these subjects.

Furthermore it is hardly anyone makes complaints about such crimes because nobody will marry a woman who has been raped. The social stigma and family pressure influence the psychology situation of these women, which in some cases can lead to suicide.

In other cases, families forcibly marry raped women, including to relatives and foreign, for the “sake of the honor”, which makes it hard to help these women who are in critical situations, as their parents block any assistance that could be provided to them.

Bashar al-Assad forces are not the only enemy to Syrian women, ISIS (criminal group) is disrobing them of their human rights, as well. “Marry me or be my slave”; this is how ISIS group threats innocent women; whether they accept or refuse they are subjected to various forms of deprivation, threats, solitary imprisonment, as well several forms of torture, rape and sexual harassment. Other women were forced to divorce their husbands and enforced to practice “jihad sex” with different rebels of ISIS.

The media has widespread the case of the young mothers who have been savagely maimed by ISIS for breastfeeding in public. The Members of ISIS’s enforce strict barbaric sharia laws concerning on how women should dress and act, breastfeeding in public is not accepted act according to their rules.

Distressingly, they use a spiked, metal device known as “The Biter” to wreak harsh punishments on women deemed to have shown too much skin and those who breastfeed in public. They take the “Biter”, which is a shrill object that has a lot of teeth, they hold the women, and place it on their chest and pressing it strongly, this could damage and destroy the femininity of these women. Thousands of Syrian women are slaughtered silently.

In other cases women are being stripped naked and forced to take “virginity tests,”  then they are taken to slave markets where the attractive virgins are sold off to the highest buyers, those who refuse to perform an extreme sex act are burned alive.

Outside Syria women face further challenges and depressed situations; some parents force to marry off their daughters as child brides and push them to work as prostitutes in the camps. Several reports stated that men from Saudi Arabia and other Middle Eastern countries take the advantage of families’ desperation to seek young brides.

While many countries have strictly constrained border crossings and closed their borders completely in response to the fear that terrorists could enter to their lands.

According to Thomson Reuters Foundation poll on women’s rights; Syria is ranked 19th out of 22 Arab states to some extent better than Saudi Arabia, Iraq and Egypt, where women face gender violence, degrade reproductive rights, economic exclusion, lack of necessary health services, depraved treatment of women within the family and the society, in addition to elimination attitudes towards women in politics and society.

Five years into Syria’s civil war and with no end in eyesight, it is somehow hard to see what the future of Syria will look like, and what women’s place will be in it, the war has devastating impact on women’s rights, putting millions of women and girls at risk of trafficking, forced and child marriage and sexual violence.



Child marriage: when little girls are taken as brides


This article was published on “The Voice of Women Initiative”, see it from here:


Child marriage is a common issue in many parts of the world, contributing to millions of victims of abuse yearly and thousands of damages or death resulting from abuse and difficulties from pregnancy and childbearing.

The Universal Declaration of Human Rights, the Convention on the Rights of the Child, the Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination Against Women and the Convention Against Torture and Other Cruel, Inhuman or Degrading Treatment or Punishment (among other charters and conventions) all directly or indirectly prohibit the humiliation and maltreatment of girls inherent in child marriage. Unfortunately, this is a reality that many girls all around the world experience every single day of their lives.

Conferring to the International Center for Research on Women (ICRW), 100 million girls will be married before the age of 18 in the approaching decade. It is estimated that the highest will be in sub-Saharan Africa and the Asian Subcontinent. In Niger, for example, 77% of women in their early 20s were married as children. In Bangladesh, 65% were. Child marriage also arises in parts of the Middle East, including Yemen and the rural Maghreb.

This is a serious problem that many young women and children face; they want their voices to reach the world to help them live their normal life, to play with their friends instead of getting pregnant when they are 8-10 years old.

I asked many of people in my surrounding about their opinions on child marriage and where it is most common!!  I got similar answers. Many of the people I spoke with responded that it is common only in developing countries, but actually this is not true, even developed countries have this issue which is wide noticeable. A real living example is USA, which is one of the most developed countries in the world where child marriage is still allowable in some states, with parental or judicial agreement.

Before discussing different shocking examples of child marriage, it is necessary to understand the reasons behind this practice such as: cultural, social, economic and religious. In many cases, a combination of these causes results in the incarceration of children in marriages without their agreement.

Poverty plays an important role pushing little girls into marriage; poor families send their children into marriage to pay off debts or to make some money and reduce the cycle of poverty.  This means that girls who marry young will not be educated or become productive to themselves and their nations in the future.

Gender discrimination also has its impact on increasing child marriage which is the creation of cultures that diminishes the rights of women and girls. Simply because they believe that women are made to get married young to serve their husband and to have many kids, therefore, their rights are denied.

These young girls need to have their inherent right to go to school, the right to be protected from bodily and mental violence, damage or abuse, and sexual abuse. They need the right to have attainable standard of health. They have the right to leisure and play and enjoy childhood, and to participate spontaneously in cultural life, the right to not be detached from parents against their will.

This phenomenon attracted the attention of people recently in the Arab countries after the death of a 12-year-old Yemeni wife during childbirth, underlining the dilemma of girls who marry before they get matured, Fawziyah’s death, like many others, would have gone overlooked if not for an attentive children’s rights activist who was visiting the hospital and examining the cases ; Ahmed al Quraishi perceived that the young girl lying on the hospital bed was only 12 years old , then he couldn’t let this story go without notice so he decided to share her predicament with the world.

Child marriage is happening across the Arab countries, but it is more extensive in Yemen, based on the cultural ethnic traditions.

Is there any Saviour??



Helding a Social Protest regarding kidnapped Nigerian girls, Colombo


A protest was held  at the BMICH attending the World Conference on Youth 2014 in Colombo, regarding the 276 Nigerian girls kidnapped by the Boko Haram.



The two sides of technology: “Stoning Case”



This article was published on “World Pulse”, check from here:


An understanding of information technology has pushed women to catapult from the ranks of the unemployed to those leading their own businesses, access to Internet improves their education, also provides them with opportunities to search and apply for jobs, exchange programs, apply for universities… As well earn additional income, thereby empowering themselves and their communities.
Access to the Internet increases women’s sense of empowerment, it provides them with more freedom, throughout bringing an understanding of cultures, it strengthens their position in the economic, political and social level, leads them to role models in their communities.

Across the African continent, there are some persuasive success stories showing how technology leads to boost women’s achievements abound. Chikondi Chabvuta, one of top 10 talented Africans (According to the Mail & Guardian). This 25 year-old woman from Malawi is fervent about empowering women farmers; her ambitious desire to educate young women pushed her to use digital technology (webcasts) as a way to put young girls in her community updated with rousing role models in Malawi and all around the world.
Technology can be used in a very simple way, but would lead to greater achievements, the case of Diana Mashudu Khumalo from rural area (Bushbuckridge, Mmpumalanga), who uses her Blackberry to access research on the Internet. In the past few years, this was impossible in a rural school because of lacking of facilities.
Another powerful female, Dr Zama Katamzi, an astro-scientist, working in the field of radio astronomy, and saying: “I am driven by challenges. Men should not feel they’re entitled to certain disciplines. I love to prove that I can also do it!”
Very inspiring stories, this only shows how important to invest in technology literacy among women, however this is not the case of all women around the global. In fact, many women die every year because of holding a new technology.
Likewise, the case of a Pakistani women “Arifa”, who was stoned to death for holding a mobile phone.

She was a mother of two, has been drugged to death respecting the commands of a tribal court for owning a cell phone. Her death was accomplished on the 11 July 2013 in the district of Dera Ghazi Khan in Punjab province. She was stoned to death by her uncle and relatives. They have been given the permission to kill her, simply for holding the new technology.

How come this tribal court gave them the permission to kill her? Why can’t women in some areas in Pakistan enjoying the new technology like any other of their sex-opposite of men? Where is the social justice in all this?
Is this all real? Is this the world we live in? Why men in some part of the world still mistreat women?

As stated, that the killers (her relatives) pitched stones at her until she passed away. She was repressed without notifying anyone.
The police recorded a First Information Report against the tribunal court but no one has been under arrest. She was concealed in a desert far away from her town and no one had the right to take part in her funeral, even her own children.
This is very normal situation that reflects what happens every single day in Pakistan, since women are often mistreated by these illegal juridical systems. This case is a strong reflected image of the horrible male-controlled society in Pakistan, and women are obligated to persist in their controls in order to survive. This is due to the lack of an appropriate criminal justice system and the influential units of society have widespread their control on women.

In fact, this Pakistani’s woman case is not exceptional or unique story; Stoning and pelting are not only practiced, but unfortunately legal in at least 15 countries!

It is shame what many women face every single day. We are in 2014; the new technology generation, yet for some of us it is a forbidden to own a simple technology.

My questions are dedicated to all the international platforms that speak the women rights, where are your roles in addressing this serious problem? Where is the United Nations in all this? Why can’t we do anything about this till now? Are we going to speak out our voices or let more women to die?

Though, I strongly believe that that it is necessary to get women engaged in this new phase, guaranteeing them to benefit from the new technology. This will happen only through an intensive effort from everyone starting from home, government, decision-makers, business owners, universities and schools… Empowering girls and women to become Internet- practitioners and providing them with online research, education and networking opportunities is a great step toward development, innovation and social justice.

Source for the Pakistani woman’s story :…